How to deal with a Narcissist in my Workplace

  In a recent encounter with a workplace narcissist, I found myself navigating a maze of manipulations and self-centered theatrics. This individual was incessantly fixated on highlighting what others weren't doing, while painting themselves as the solitary hero, looking for recognition and deeply concerned about the organization's welfare. Their tactics were cunning, often dropping my name in conversations with co-workers to imply authority or influence, and orchestrating group meetings to ensure everyone heard their version of events. They sought alliances through manipulation, suggesting others would corroborate their claims. To address these challenges, we conducted thorough investigations into every allegation. The key was to interview each person privately with a witness present, stressing the importance of confidentiality. Despite our efforts, we couldn't substantiate their claims. We reinforced our policies and guidelines on reporting, particularly emphasizing the da

Unlock Your Team's Potential: Why Coaching is the Key to Success (with Power Words & Conversation Starters!)






Think your employees are already giving it their all? Think again! Coaching opens a whole new level of performance and engagement, benefiting both individuals and your organization. But don't just take our word for it. Here are 5 key reasons why coaching is critical:

  1. Boosted Performance & Skills: Targeted coaching helps employees overcome hurdles, acquire new skills, and achieve goals they never thought possible. Imagine: a sales team closing more deals, managers leading with confidence, and everyone exceeding expectations!

  2. Unleashed Potential: Every employee has hidden talents waiting to be unleashed. Coaching fosters self-discovery, helping individuals tap into their strengths and reach their full potential. Witness increased motivation, creativity, and a drive to excel!

  3. Enhanced Engagement & Retention: Feeling valued and supported is crucial for employee satisfaction. Coaching shows you care, creating a positive and motivated work environment. Reduced turnover and a happier team – what more could you ask for?

  4. Improved Problem-Solving & Decision-Making: Coaching empowers employees to think critically and find solutions independently. No more waiting for instructions – watch your team become resourceful, adaptable, and confident decision-makers.

  5. Stronger Company Culture: Coaching fosters open communication, collaboration, and trust. The ripple effect? A stronger, more united company culture where everyone feels empowered to contribute and thrive.

Ready to start the conversation?

We've included 5 Employee Coaching Power Words to help you navigate even the most challenging situations:

  1. Empathy: Understand and acknowledge your employee's feelings before diving into feedback.
  2. Curiosity: Ask open-ended questions to encourage self-reflection and learning.
  3. Collaboration: Work together to create solutions and action plans.
  4. Accountability: Clearly communicate expectations and consequences while offering support.
  5. Appreciation: Recognize and celebrate accomplishments, big and small.

Plus, we've got Conversation Starters for everyday situations:

  • "I noticed you're working on this project. I'm curious about..."
  • "Help me understand how..."
  • "Tell me why this approach doesn't seem to be working for you..."
  • "What problem are we trying to solve here?"

Remember, coaching is an investment, not an expense. By unlocking your employees' potential, you unlock the future success of your organization. Start your coaching journey today and watch your team, and your business, soar!

Why Starting with Empathy Makes All the Difference in Coaching

We've talked about the importance of asking for permission before giving feedback, but why is this so crucial? It all boils down to empathy and understanding.

Think about it: we all come to work with different lives and experiences that can impact our performance. Maybe your employee is dealing with a sick child, financial stress, or even personal struggles like anxiety or depression. You won't know these challenges by simply observing their work.

That's where a simple "How are you doing?" comes in. This seemingly ordinary question opens the door to building a genuine connection with your employee. It shows you care and creates a safe space for them to confide if they're facing difficulties.

Here's why starting with empathy matters:

  1. Uncover Underlying Issues: By taking the time to connect, you might discover potential roadblocks affecting their performance. This allows you to tailor your coaching and offer support beyond just work-related tasks.
  2. Boost Trust & Open Communication: When employees feel heard and understood, they're more likely to be receptive to feedback and engaged in the coaching process.
  3. Develop Together: By listening and learning about their experiences, you gain valuable insights into their strengths and opportunities for growth. This not only benefits them but also helps you become a better coach and leader.

But asking permission and showing empathy are just the first steps. Remember, effective coaching also involves:

  • Clarifying expectations: Make sure your employee understands what good performance looks like in this specific situation.
  • Holding them accountable: While being empathetic, don't shy away from addressing performance issues. Offer clear guidance and hold them responsible for improvement.
  • Providing direction: Guide them towards solutions and resources that can help them achieve their goals.

By combining empathy with clear expectations and direction, you create a supportive and empowering coaching environment where your employees can truly thrive.

Remember, effective coaching is a journey, not a destination. Start with understanding your employees, and watch your team reach their full potential!

And don't forget to check out the attached video and examples for even more guidance!

Share your coaching experiences and favorite power words in the comments below!










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  1. I feel trust is so important when coaching. Because as a coach you have to have very difficult conversations and they have to be open to the criticism in order to grow. I have found the more they trust me the more they seek my advice and are willing to be coached

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  2. Yes good point one needs to build those strong relationship but with boundaries and expectations.

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